Dating an effeminate man
Here’s the trouble: While femininity can be dangerous for gay men, it is somewhat expected of them—a form of behavior or mode of self-presentation they are “allowed.” For bi guys like me, even a little femininity threatens to erase our entire identity. Both the straight and LGBTQ community regularly speculate on the veracity of my sexuality.
I am told I don’t exist or that I’m going through a phase.
They do not hard core apply to YOU all the time, because when you spend THAT much time with someone, you realise that we all have moments where we slip in to different roles and he might have done something once or twice that indicated he was a beta male but really he isn’t.
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I'm not sure if there is, but he's been texting me today that he had a nice time and wants to go out again soon.
Has anyone else ever dated a feminine/metrosexual kind of guy? I met a guy from online dating last week for drinks.
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Really nice, decent looking, but he is definitely more on the feminine side.
The following are examples of what I feel an alpha male would not look like.
Having said that…If you are in a long term relationship right now, take these 5 indicators LIGHTLY.
Alone, I blended in quite nicely with the queer mosaic of the crowd.
However, I was with my ex-girlfriend, and as we passionately made our bodies and lips into one on the dancefloor, it wasn’t my look that was turning people’s heads.